First Date Faux Pas.
First dates are stressful, and no one wants a checklist of do's and don'ts in their head while trying to make a good
impression. Approach the first date with ease, and try to relax. While any creative or thoughtful first date might go
a long way to winning that someone's heart, the wrong move can just as easily create a bad impression. When planning
that memorable first outing, avoid a few classic mistakes and increase your chances for a second date.
NEVER ASSUME ONE OF YOU IS PAYING.
The one who does the asking, should do the paying is an assumption that won't lead to a second date. Be prepared for at least
going Dutch and splitting the bill. If your date pays the bill, you can offer to pay next time - a great way to suggest getting
together again. And never pay the bill expecting that your date will take care of it next time.
NEVER SUGGEST MEETING FRIENDS OR FAMILY.
Accidentally running into friends or family during a first date is a great way to ensure there won't be a second. Your date will
know you've set them up, no matter how clever you think you are. Having your date meet your closest confidants only worked at your
Senior Prom. Don't pressure them into knowing everything about you so quickly. You'll get there in due time. Once the family's
involved, you'll never hear the end of it, if the date doesn't work out.
NEVER SURPRISE SOMEONE YOU DON'T KNOW.
It's best to know a little about your date's likes and dislikes before you plan a first date. Fish eggs aren't for everyone. Don't
plan to wine and dine with caviar and champagne if you haven't asked first. A kayaking trip with a non-swimmer, a mountain hike with
someone who's afraid of heights, or a foreign film with a date who likes action movies, can all spell disaster.
NEVER TALK JUST TO KEEP THE CONVERSATION GOING.
First dates are filled with awkward pauses and silent moments. There is nothing worse than someone who talks incessantly. Unless something
really interesting happened at work, don't talk about your job. And no one wants to hear about your problems on a first date. Keep it
positive and try to be a good listener too. If you're getting yawns from across the table, it's best to change the subject.
TELL THE TRUTH, EVEN IF IT HURTS.
There will be a lot of questions and answers on your first date. Tell the truth, no matter what the question is. If you're honest, you'll
show that you're serious about wanting a relationship. If you lie, you'll eventually get caught, and have a lot of explaining to do.
AND NEVER LIE ABOUT...
According to Men's Health Magazine, 37-percent of American men lie about the size of their manhood. Should your relationship progress to
an intimate place, it won't be difficult to figure out where your shortcomings are.
TRY NOT TO SNEAK SEX INTO THE CONVERSATION.
If you're both feeling it, odds are the sex will happen when it's meant to. Sneaking hints and sexual inuendo into "getting to
know you" banter isn't sexy - it's desperate. If you're looking for a hook up, head to a bar or find a quickie online. If you
want something more, lines like "Do you want to come up to my place?" when the first date is ending, probably won't land
you a second date.
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